How to sext on Telegram, step by step

Before you start: four settings to change

Sexting is a private conversation, so start by making your Telegram private. It takes two minutes:

• Hide your phone number. Settings, Privacy and Security, Phone Number, then "Nobody".
• Set a username. People can write to you with it, without ever seeing your number.
• Lock the app with a passcode. Privacy and Security, Passcode Lock. Useful if your phone is lying on a table.
• Hide message previews. In Notifications, turn off the preview so nothing shows on your lock screen.

Step 1: choose who you write to

Sexting works when you have chosen who to write to and you both want to be there. On this site, each creator has a journal. Read a page or two before you write: you will know her tone, her humour and what she likes to talk about.

Step 2: send a first message that is not "hi"

A creator receives a lot of "hi beautiful". The message that gets a real answer mentions something real: a page of her journal, a photo, a detail. "Did the pasta at two in the morning win again?" works far better than a compliment she has read a hundred times.

Keep the first line light. Sexting is a conversation before it is anything else.

Step 3: let it warm up

The best exchanges take their time. A few habits help:

• Follow her lead. She sets the tone; answer it rather than racing ahead.
• Suggest more than you say. A sentence that hints is often stronger than one that spells everything out.
• Ask what she likes. And remember the answer.
• Take a pause. A conversation that picks up again the next evening is not a failure, it is part of the game.

Step 4: photos and private content

In the conversation, she may offer photos or videos that are not on the site. Part of this private content is paid: she tells you what it is and the price before anything is sent, and nothing is charged without your agreement. Chatting itself is free.

Etiquette: the only real rules

• A no is a no. It does not call for negotiation.
• Never share someone else's photos, and never forward what was sent to you.
• Do not send anything that identifies you: your face with your name, your address, your workplace.
• Stay courteous, even when the conversation does not take off.

Scams to avoid on Telegram

• A stranger who writes to you first with a photo that is too perfect.
• A payment link sent in a hurry, with an "offer that expires".
• A request for the login code Telegram sends you by SMS: it is used to steal your account.
• Groups that promise "leaked" photos: they are shared without consent, and often bait.

Here, you choose and you write first. That is the best protection.

Four creators to start with

Claire, who leads

A fitness coach in the morning, behind a bar at night. She launches the challenges and she always has the last word.

Zoe, the tease

Italian, a night owl, always late. She teases you before you have even said hello.

Ambre, the straight talker

A country girl from Normandy discovering Paris. She says what she thinks and laughs loudly.

Iris, who takes her time

Red wine, a beautiful dress and no hurry at all. With her, the tension rises slowly, and that is the point.

Frequently asked questions

Is sexting on Telegram private?

A private chat stays between the two accounts. For more, a secret chat is end to end encrypted, stays on the two phones only and can delete messages after a timer.

Do I need a new app?

No. Telegram is enough, free on phone and computer. The button on each profile opens the creator's conversation directly.

Is it free?

Chatting is free. Part of the private content is paid, always with the price announced before.

Is the site for adults only?

Yes. The site and the conversations are for adults only.